although teenage love is inevitably shortlived (except in a few rare cases), it felt more intense and unconditional. From my experience as a teen.
I'm in my 20's now.
What is your opinion?What is the difference between teenage love and adult love?
I think that it is difficult to say that you love someone as an adolescent but you do not fully understand commitment or what you are committing to. Love is more than feelings. Emotional feelings can be intense, but they may not be the stuff from which permanent unions are made. My thinking may be too Greco-Roman, but love involves rational and emotional elements. A person who decides to form a relation based on how he feels emotionally might as well form the relationship on how someone looks, because when the rubber hits the road, both with fade and buckle. The flame of a fire may appear bright, but the burning embers provide the heat.What is the difference between teenage love and adult love?
There is really no difference in the emotional processes going on. The difference may be in the physical processes going on. Many people refer to young love as ';puppy love'; or say it's not real, but as you already know it is very intense and as real as it gets. You can have this same ';love'; as an adult, give it some time. Maybe you are looking to hard. Give dating a rest for a while. You find it when your not looking for it.
love itself is not attained very easily. it is a huge challenge, because the idea of love isn't you love someone, or someone loves you. it is where you love each other. and in teenage love, either that aspect isn't seen or the challenge makes others back off from the task. but in adult love, sometimes it is the same thing as a teenage love, where the goal just isn't reached, but sometimes in adult love, and more often than teenage love, two people actually get to the point of loving each other.
Teen love is physical, emotional, and sexual, all rolled into one ball. At 18, you look at someone, and you think they look hot, and you want to have sex with them. Then you get married, and the babies come, and the next thing you know, the kids are gone. But, you look at that person you married, you think of the crazy things you did together, they may have gained a little bit of weight, but, you know, when this person walks in a room, your heart may not beat as fast as it did when you were teens, but, it will glow with a love that says, There's my true love!
Teenage love usually refers to a short, turbulent relationship that includes some 90210-esque catfights, slapping, and emotional insecurity.
Adult love is the kind of love that makes people get married.
Teenagers can have Adult love as well, depending on their maturity level.
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