What is a good rules and consequences list for a teenage girl?

Please make a detailed rules and consequences list for my 16 female teenage girl. We are making a behavioral contract with her and really need help. Thanks so much. Best answer will get 10 pts.What is a good rules and consequences list for a teenage girl?
Ok, lets see.


I've got a 14 year old step daughter, and she does not live with us, she is usually here on the weekends, but let me tell you, it can get difficult when she is here.





Let me go back a bit. We gave her a cell phone for Christmas and told her that she was not allowed to contact boys or use her phone after 9pm. On school days, she was not allowed to have the phone turned on until AFTER school at 5pm-9pm.





Well to say the least, after 2 weeks, dad took the phone from her to check any numbers she had on there and sure enough she had a boy on there. So you know what happened? She no longer has a phone.





Rules are that she needs to be home when you say, -if she is allowed to be out, and if she breaks these rules. The first time there could be just a warning, but after the 2nd time. Thats it. You have to earn her trust back. Sure she did it once, but if you let it happen again, sorry charlie.


No talking back. My girl can be a really smarty pants and its usually when we pick her up cause she is ALWAYS in a bad mood, so she makes her comments, and we call her on it. Neither her dad nor I take any talking down to. I will put her in her place just as I will my other 3 children when they grow older.


I'm not sure what else you might be looking for as far as rules go.


Homework needs to be done AS soon as you get home. And bring your text book home too. They ALWAYS have questions do they not, and I cannot go back 15 years to my science class and remember about kentic energy just from the top of my head. no way.


No excuses for bad grade. You do what your job is at this point in time which is to be a STUDENT. Thats her job. She needs to do what she needs to do. Study, homework, test etc.


If she has privileges like tv, going out, phone, car, etc, Take them away.


No leeway. If you give them an inch, they want a yard, and then they will be doing whatever.


You must be firm, but loving.What is a good rules and consequences list for a teenage girl?
1) Must be in by 1:45 am. No later. If this is broken you will have to not be able to go out for a week or shortened to 10:45pm .





2) No boys home when parents are out. Unless you have asked.





3) Any rule breaking will be consequences of : cell phone, computer taken away , early in time , etc.
the answer is no whaatever the question is the answer isa no and why because i say so that why and im the mommy








if ur only think about rules at the age of 16 uve missed the boat - behavioural or otherwise - dont u have house rules etc that are ongoing
here's a good rule...if you're going to post your question on somebody elses answer....at least give them a decent answer to their question if you want good answers from them on yours....